"GYPSY CABBY." I used this phrase to describe a driver who cheated a Boston woman out of $120 on the snowy night of Feb. 18.
His "cab" had no information painted on the outside. Inside, he displayed no license or list of fares. When he picked up the Boston woman (at Union Station), his cab was parked several blocks away. And he never told her how much he'd charge to take her to the Bethesda Marriott.1
I thought the phrase "gypsy cabby" fit like a glove. I used it without a second thought.
More than 100 readers took exception. They pointed out that the phrase was born of racial prejudice. They pointed out that gypsies were exterminated in large numbers by Hitler's Germany. I'd never use a phrase with another ethnic slur embedded within it, they said. So why use this one?
Because this one no longer implies anything specifically ethnic.2
The phrase is in the language and in the dictionary.2a
It refers to any cabdriver who flies by night and flouts the rules.3
A "gypsy cabby" can indeed be a gypsy. But he can also be Hispanic, black, or as white as Wonder Bread. He can be anyone.4 The driver in the story I published was African -- hardly a gypsy at all.5
So the phrase has no sting. If it still had any, I would never have used it.
Let's compare "gypsy cabby" to similar phrases that began life as defamatory and are now universal.6
For example, "getting your Irish up."
Once upon a time, that might have suggested that Irish people are more excitable than others, or that they're the only ethnic group that flips its lid. Today, "getting your Irish up" can apply to anyone of any ethnic group.7
For another example, "whistlin' Dixie."
At birth, this was clearly a putdown of southerners. But today, "whistlin' Dixie" can be (and is) used to describe New Yorkers and Canadians, too.8
To all who chastised me on this one: Thanks for your passion and caring. You keep us both honest. But we all have to recognize when there's an active pellet of hate inside a phrase and when there isn't.9
Many times, I've written about how I despise (and refuse to repeat) "Polish jokes." Reason: They still do contain a specific racial message. You can't tell a Polish joke about a Hungarian.10
In New York City, "gypsy cabs" have that phrase written on their doors, in many cases.11 The expression is so common that it wouldn't make a Geiger counter twitch.12
1I'm having trouble absorbing the fact that someone would walk away from a crowded station with a strange man to get into an unmarked car a block away without asking for the fare. That's just me, I guess.
2 Um.
Of course it does. It's based on the idea that someone doing something illicit is behaving like a gypsy, which is not the term that the romany prefer to use for themselves, insofar as it suggests an egyptian origin for them which there is no reason to believe exists.
2a Sorry, no, it isn't. Gypsy cab is. A person who drives a gypsy cab is known as a gypsy cab driver.
Trust me, I'm a New Yorker, I know this.
3 Nope.
One entry found for gypsy cab.
Main Entry: gypsy cab
Function: noun
Date: 1964
: a taxicab licensed only to answer calls; especially : such a cab that cruises in search of passengers illegally
Actually, it's almost always used for an illegal and unmarked cab.
4 he?
5 hardly? You mean like not at all except for the dishonesty part?
6 emphasis mine
7 someone clearly needs to explain to this fool the basis of the whole simile/metaphor thing.
See, the thing is, if you describe lack of emotional continence by africans or anglo-saxons or naked molerats as "getting your irish up" you're suggesting that lack of emotional continence is a particularly irish trait.
While you may find this endearing, it's considered a slur in wider circles, or at least in differenct circles than you travel in.
8 Say what?
This is too weird for me even to address. I've never heard New Yorkers referred to as "whistling Dixie" and my husband, who's from that bulwark of anti-Canadian slurs Detroit has never heard them referred to that way.
I have no idea where it came from.
9 Condescension and insensitivity might be a little easier to recognize for the untrained eye.
(that's con·de·scen·sion
Pronunciation: "kän-di-'sen(t)-sh&n
Function: noun
Etymology: Late Latin condescension-, condescensio, from condescendere
Date: 1647
1 : voluntary descent from one's rank or dignity in relations with an inferior
2 : patronizing attitude or behavior
10 Guessing Mr. Levy's antecedents are neither irish or romany. Just a wild guess.
11 Why yes! Many drivers of non-licensed taxis in New York have taken the helpful step of stencilling "I am doing something illegal and cannot be trusted! If I do manage to get a passenger, please stop and arrest!" on the door of their cabs to make things easier for passengers and police officers alike.
Damn, bud, you're hip. I didn't think they knew about that shit outside of the city.
12 Dunno. Anyone's alarm go off?
Wonder what Lloyd Grove thinks of all this.
His "cab" had no information painted on the outside. Inside, he displayed no license or list of fares. When he picked up the Boston woman (at Union Station), his cab was parked several blocks away. And he never told her how much he'd charge to take her to the Bethesda Marriott.1
I thought the phrase "gypsy cabby" fit like a glove. I used it without a second thought.
More than 100 readers took exception. They pointed out that the phrase was born of racial prejudice. They pointed out that gypsies were exterminated in large numbers by Hitler's Germany. I'd never use a phrase with another ethnic slur embedded within it, they said. So why use this one?
Because this one no longer implies anything specifically ethnic.2
The phrase is in the language and in the dictionary.2a
It refers to any cabdriver who flies by night and flouts the rules.3
A "gypsy cabby" can indeed be a gypsy. But he can also be Hispanic, black, or as white as Wonder Bread. He can be anyone.4 The driver in the story I published was African -- hardly a gypsy at all.5
So the phrase has no sting. If it still had any, I would never have used it.
Let's compare "gypsy cabby" to similar phrases that began life as defamatory and are now universal.6
For example, "getting your Irish up."
Once upon a time, that might have suggested that Irish people are more excitable than others, or that they're the only ethnic group that flips its lid. Today, "getting your Irish up" can apply to anyone of any ethnic group.7
For another example, "whistlin' Dixie."
At birth, this was clearly a putdown of southerners. But today, "whistlin' Dixie" can be (and is) used to describe New Yorkers and Canadians, too.8
To all who chastised me on this one: Thanks for your passion and caring. You keep us both honest. But we all have to recognize when there's an active pellet of hate inside a phrase and when there isn't.9
Many times, I've written about how I despise (and refuse to repeat) "Polish jokes." Reason: They still do contain a specific racial message. You can't tell a Polish joke about a Hungarian.10
In New York City, "gypsy cabs" have that phrase written on their doors, in many cases.11 The expression is so common that it wouldn't make a Geiger counter twitch.12
1I'm having trouble absorbing the fact that someone would walk away from a crowded station with a strange man to get into an unmarked car a block away without asking for the fare. That's just me, I guess.
2 Um.
Of course it does. It's based on the idea that someone doing something illicit is behaving like a gypsy, which is not the term that the romany prefer to use for themselves, insofar as it suggests an egyptian origin for them which there is no reason to believe exists.
2a Sorry, no, it isn't. Gypsy cab is. A person who drives a gypsy cab is known as a gypsy cab driver.
Trust me, I'm a New Yorker, I know this.
3 Nope.
One entry found for gypsy cab.
Main Entry: gypsy cab
Function: noun
Date: 1964
: a taxicab licensed only to answer calls; especially : such a cab that cruises in search of passengers illegally
Actually, it's almost always used for an illegal and unmarked cab.
4 he?
5 hardly? You mean like not at all except for the dishonesty part?
6 emphasis mine
7 someone clearly needs to explain to this fool the basis of the whole simile/metaphor thing.
See, the thing is, if you describe lack of emotional continence by africans or anglo-saxons or naked molerats as "getting your irish up" you're suggesting that lack of emotional continence is a particularly irish trait.
While you may find this endearing, it's considered a slur in wider circles, or at least in differenct circles than you travel in.
8 Say what?
This is too weird for me even to address. I've never heard New Yorkers referred to as "whistling Dixie" and my husband, who's from that bulwark of anti-Canadian slurs Detroit has never heard them referred to that way.
I have no idea where it came from.
9 Condescension and insensitivity might be a little easier to recognize for the untrained eye.
(that's con·de·scen·sion
Pronunciation: "kän-di-'sen(t)-sh&n
Function: noun
Etymology: Late Latin condescension-, condescensio, from condescendere
Date: 1647
1 : voluntary descent from one's rank or dignity in relations with an inferior
2 : patronizing attitude or behavior
10 Guessing Mr. Levy's antecedents are neither irish or romany. Just a wild guess.
11 Why yes! Many drivers of non-licensed taxis in New York have taken the helpful step of stencilling "I am doing something illegal and cannot be trusted! If I do manage to get a passenger, please stop and arrest!" on the door of their cabs to make things easier for passengers and police officers alike.
Damn, bud, you're hip. I didn't think they knew about that shit outside of the city.
12 Dunno. Anyone's alarm go off?
Wonder what Lloyd Grove thinks of all this.